Gimmie A Break!

There comes a time when you can't keep up with everything and keep your blog up to date as well. I guess I'd feel less guilty after I've posted this. Last week, after not doing my full blog rounds on purpose, I found out that I had a bit more time to focus on some things that had been left on the back burner and now I am feeling that they are actually important enough for me to decide to give this blog a break.

I started praying more and have began to feel something moving me to pay more time to some things coming up in the next few weeks. The 'secret place' in the 'beautiful place' is where I feel Gods presence and suffice to say I want to spend the next few weeks here seeking His face and guidance.


I can't thank enough, those who spurred me on in the darkest times months ago when all I could see was reruns of dude kissing on missus while I was in left with child alone in guest house to usher in new year. I have forgiven dude but I can't forget. Danny Bagucci's thoughts on people is so pertinent to this dude. He is definitely an NnaBros, a male Madam Kofo i.e. with an over-inflated sense of importance, I once referenced him as a prayerful fornicator, in my mind the dangerous type of shoulder to cry on that has his own hidden agenda.

My wife has detailed the full story of what happened and how everything unravelled. Suffice to say, he is not the same person she knew it's a shame that their mutual childhood friend who owned up to me was not pleased when I blogged about it. That's a story for another day since I have a different idea of what true friends do in situations. That's enough airtime for the ex-pastor wannabe though I hope one day he restores himself if he hasn't already.

My wife and I have been on a nice holiday, spent real quality time and she is at her very best. I am learning too and she commends me for the improved support I give to her dreams and aspirations. One thing that I commend her for when we had the chat, was her finally taking responsibility for her actions. I know I had blame, but just hearing it from her made me realise that the external pull did a lot to tip the balance. We have both done a lot to ring in the changes and are proud of each other.

I just want to say thanks to blogville but most of all thanks to God for restoring my marriage, the love and respect is there and a joy to behold. As both of us continue to pray we trust that we are better for all that happened and our testimony would inspire one or two people as we also improve ourselves.

I will go off blogging for a while hopefully not for too long. I hope you all remain blessed as I pour this energy elsewhere.