Truce: Moving on...with inner peace

A burden has been lifted as the curtain gets drawn on this blog
I can't harden my heart to the good that the Lord has shown me
I can't express the joy of my union in words
I can't write anymore....not as Dabizniz
But these words will forever be a reminder..
To fortify my house against the enemy


To my wife; I love you
To Blogville; t'was an experience to cherish
To err is human, but to forgive is divine

Countdown to going private on 13th Jan 2010

Truce or threat..it's your choice

Sending emails through to my missus is no way to try to bring an end to a saga you brought upon yourself. Defamation of character is a pretty strong statement. In retrospect have you stopped to consider "what character"?

You really need to set it straight and come clean to me with remorse for what you have done. I will accept your apologies on the basis of a true acceptance of your culpability in this affair.

Matthew 5:23 - 24 will shed light on where I am coming from.

Like you, I'd like to move on and as such, I can give you my word that I will give you audience if you don't blame game or threaten any legal nonsense.

You still don't realise the gravity of what you have done and I need you to understand this so as to help yourself in future. I will email you details to with a number to ring me on soon. I hope you "do the right thing" to bring this to an end.

A Vain thing from Nnabros the prayerful fornicator

The same person who tried to woo my wife to bed is still trying to convince us that he is a man of God. I would accept his preaching if dude had apologised to me and asked for forgiveness.

Only God can judge but please women don't get close

I can only wish your "ministry" well and hope that when fire baptisms come you don't fall a second time

It's good to be here

I have been pouring out emotions in the past in the form of poems and stuff. I finally decided to write. Life is good for me at the moment as I have used a period of separation to to build myself to a point to learn to appreciate me more than anyone else.

In life you have to be appreciative of yourself before you can at any time be appreciative of anything else. These feeling of lack of self worth sometimes make people seek self affirmation elsewhere and can lead to affairs. My marriage is still growing from strength to strength and I am so thankful to God.

I am happy with increase in other areas of my life as well, though I do hope my work does bring me back to my home again. Thanks to all those who have asked about my wife. She is brilliant and learning everyday. I can see the union that God intended as the feelings of butterflies, and the sparks coming back.

It takes courage, hard work, humility and prayer to be come out of these kind of fire baptisms. My advice to everyone is to guard yours because rest assured your marriage will go through trials, and the agents of darkness will use some people to try and make inroads to the destruction of your union.

Anyway my whole marriage mindset has changed from this and I have just started my filling out my form to get my counselling certifications. I feel passionate about helping people through marital issues and getting back on track. I know this is one calling, so watch this space.

Lastly God bless you immensely for seeing me through this; however the journey continues....

Whose Burden?

Life’s intricacies bear burden
Heavy laden like an ox’s yoke
Not to be shared
Not to be halved
My thoughts are with me alone
My challenges are mine to stomach
My successes are mine to cherish with anyone who bothers to plug in
My focus is me
My joy is in my focus
My hope is in my joy
My joy is in my trust
My trust is in God
My God is in me
He is my focus
Wherein lies my vision

Keeping the distance

Your heart is an inciting flame of seething anger

A burning furnace of sweltering rage
A volcano teetering on the brink of eruption
A poison chalice of disdain
A smokescreen of hidden emotions and dangerous liaisons
A heart with a broken arrow
I fear your wrath
As such I will keep my distance, my sanity
and self-worth